I just don't get why everyone here (as I can tell) hates me.

Being rude can surely cause havoc... please tell me why you hate me... politely.

Because you make topics like this.

im talking about in the shoutbox

Yes, because of topics like this. They indicate that you take it seriously, making yourself a target because you become fun to set off. (ie, asking for it.) My advice is not to care about the shoutbox so much. Also, make note of the great deal of sarcasm used when people respond to you. (ie, they aren't being serious and don't actually hate you.)

Other than that, I'm locking this topic because it's just whining.